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Expertinent: Huckabee Agrees That Wives Should 'Submit Graciously' to Their Husbands. What Does He Mean?

Andrew Romano

Expertinent is a regular Stumper column featuring interviews with experts on the news of the day. 

Poor Mike Huckabee. He can't catch a break these days--at least not with the press. (The polls: different story.)

First it's ethics complaints. Then AIDS. Then the parole of a once (and future) rapist/murderer. Then alleged payoffs from Big Tobacco. All while sustaining attacks from his Republican rivals on immigration, taxes and crime. It's almost enough to get a guy eating corndogs again.

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The latest fuel on the fire: his views on marriage. In June 1998, the Southern Baptist convention amended its official statement of beliefs for the first time in 35 years to declare that "a wife is to submit graciously to the servant leadership of her husband." And Huckabee, a former Southern Baptist minister then serving as governor of Arkansas, signed a full-page ad in USA Today in support of the statement (along with 129 other evangelical leaders). Now, as the New York Post so poetically puts it, "HOLY HUCKABEE FACES SNIT OVER 'GALS, SUBMIT.'" DailyKos and Andrew Sullivan agree.

With non-Baptist ears hearing the SBC statement as "do whatever your husband says"--a "Father Knows Best" (if not "Flintstones") philosophy--it seems fair to ask what "submit graciously to the servant leadership of her husband" actually means to a Southern Baptist like Huckabee. Seeking context, I called up Roger S. Oldham, the SBC's vice president for convention relations. Here's what he had to say on the subject:

Mike Huckabee and his wife in signing this ad in 1998 were reflecting their commitment to their core religious values as revealed in the Bible.

With the exception of the word graciously, this is language coming right out of the Biblical text Ephesians V. It is an imperative addressed to the wife. It's not an imperative addressed to the husband. In other words, the man doesn't walk around and say, "Well, you're supposed to be submissive to me." It's not a club. Subordination is not subjugation, nor is it a statement of inferiority. And "servant," by the way, is not directed toward the woman. It's directed toward the man. She is submitting to the "servant leadership" of him. He is the one who is in the role of servant.

Now, there's no doubt that there has been abuse in interpreting the Ephesians V text. There have been those over the years who have read it that the husband is to keep his wife in constant remembrance that she's to be submissive.

But ideally the Ephesians V family is a family in which there is mutual submission to one another in the fear of the Lord. Therefore, when there are matters of discussion, both husband and wife converse with each other, seeking to find consensus. In those rare instances where consensus is not reached, the wife says, "Okay, you have the responsibility and accountability to stand before God one day and give an account of the decision you're going to make. But I--voluntarily--submit to your leadership is this instance." Now, when that happens, what that does is frees the husband up. He's no longer arguing with his wife. He now has to stand before God.

Sure, that's softer than "submit." But, in the end, the man still gets the upper hand--meaning there's still considerable room for controversy.

How will Huckabee's views on marriage play politically? We know it won't disturb the evangelicals boosting his primary bid. In fact, as an affirmation of faith-based family values, it's probably a plus (especially if Huckabee again calls criticism on this issue an attack on his faith, as he did in 1998).

But much of America might see such strict adherence to Biblical doctrine as sort of extreme, which (along with Huckabee's other "issues") could cause him trouble in the general election. It's one thing to be a man of faith. Most people appreciate that. It's another to say that a wife should agree to give her husband the last word.

I know a lot of "gals" who would disagree.

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Member Comments

Posted By: opinionater (February 6, 2008 at 3:58 PM)

If god were running for president I would vote for him. Otherwise I think religion should be left out of it. It is politics after all. I do not want to vote for someone because they are christian or not. I want to vote for the person that will do the best for our country. I doubt that god has a great view of politics anyway. When all is said and done we are all responsible for our actions, being christian or not does not  does not excuse bad behavior. I believe in the end that god will take into account our actions more than what we called ourselves. Some very bad people read the bible every day. Some very good people never read it. Reading the bible or being christian doesn't make bad behavior Ok and it doesn't make us god or give us the right to judge other people. I believe that the bible was meant to be a guide not a weapon or a defense.


Posted By: mcshannon2004 (January 4, 2008 at 12:06 AM)

Okay this is getting stupid, by men and women alike. I'm a christian, but it doesn't give my husband the right to run over me. We have a partnership. I leave big decisions up to him, because he is the head of the household. That's the way it should be. If women think that is sexist, then they are ignorant. If men think it gives them the right to abuse their wives, then they need to grow up. This country was founded on religion, and the freedom to it. Why should a person running for preident be any different. They shouldn't have to hide their religion or their beliefs. If you would like to live in a couontry like Iraq, take God out of the country, and that's exactly how it will be. Maybe everyone who said the wife submitting was sexist should actually read all of the bible, not just parts of it. It shouldn't be taken out of context.


Posted By: mufafa (January 3, 2008 at 4:55 PM)

Nearly every married person in America took religious vows stating "to honor and obey".  And signed on it.  They are all a bunch of hokey religious fanatics! Hahaha.  But really, it's not that serious. You can't judge something you are not informed about.  It's one line of many lines. That happens so much in our media world now.  Anyone can do whatever they want with any words you say, twist and turn and ad lib.  There would be nothing to talk about all day on CNN if the media didn't milk every opportunity they get to tear apart every utterance of prominent people.  I'm glad I'm a nobody, that sucks...

He may be a chauvenist pig, but for other reasons, not because he signed that newspaper decree.  


 
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